Shifting Blame.

Have you ever been in a situation where you find yourself blaming another for your shortcomings? Maybe we all have but why? Why are people so quick to shift blame? Husbands blaming their wives for the misconduct of their kids when the root of the problem might be a little different. Maybe if they paid more attention or made themselves more available, the story might be a little different. You force someone into making a decision by moulding their mind to where you want it, years down the road, something goes wrong and you feel the need to blame everyone but yourself? In a relationship, it’s okay to have misunderstandings and sometimes disagreements but if you’re wrong, why is your ego forcing you to shift the blame and extend the timeframe of discomfort? Pointing fingers in the wrong directions. Take a long look at yourself in the mirror, no matter who you are; friend, sister, brother, partner, wife, husband, mother or father. Examine your character, the choices you’ve made, the way you’ve handled situations and find the right person to point the finger at because the longer you stay lying to yourself, the longer the problem stays unsolved. Think.

Small Minds.

Ever met a narrow-minded person? 

You know that person that always views situations from a less than smart perspective? The person you let in on your goals and ambitions and they’re so quick to shut you down or belittle you. Sometimes, you’d be made to believe you’re dreaming too big. No, that’s not it. They’re thinking too small. You need to distance yourself from that type of energy. You don’t need everyone to believe in your dream or understand it. If you believe in yourself and understand what you’re trying to achieve, that’s more than enough. It might not make sense to a lot of people but that’s okay. Don’t dream any less because of words out of a small mind. 

 “Small minds can’t comprehend big dreams”