That unattainable perfection we constantly crave might be the cause of the problem. We all want something good, something real but I think we sometimes forget that good things take time. No one comes prepackaged with all the elements that make them ‘it’. It’s so hard to click with people in the world we live in now so if you connect with someone, embrace it. Don’t push them away because they have flaws. We all do. We might be too prideful to admit it but they remain flaws regardless.
All I’m saying is, no one’s perfect. We all need help to grow out of our flaws.
Have you ever wondered why someone would accept all your flaws and love you unconditionally? What do they really see that makes it so easy for them to completely love you? When you look at yourself in the mirror, it’s extremely difficult to picture what their eyes show them.
What’s the ideology behind greener pastures? What’s really the reason why people feel they have to change environments to get what they’re really searching for? Is it all in the mind? Maybe there’s more to it.
With business growth and success, I believe the environment you’re in can strongly affect you. This could be positive or negative. The negatives can push you to want to find greener pastures. As long as you’re making the right decisions and going in the right direction, that’s great.
When we step into the territory of relationships, it’s a different ball game. When certain people see you in a healthy relationship, they decide it’s time to play mind games. They’re so quick to tell you how much better they’d be as your partner and reasons why you should step out of your relationship. Honestly, no relationship is perfect. You’d have ups and downs but you need to understand that feelings don’t change because there’s a storm. If that happens, maybe they weren’t actually there in the first place. Everyone has demons and that person planting doubts in your mind might have greater demons than what you’re dealing with in your current relationship. Don’t be too quick to step out. You might be looking across from your lawn and imagine the grass is greener on the other side but don’t forget the price of mowing and watering the lawn. The devil you know is better than the angel you don’t know. If you have someone that treats you right and is there for you when you need them, stay. We all have flaws, some more than others. Stick to what you know, maintain your lawn and your grass would get greener.
The gap between your teeth,
The space between your eyes,
Your full lips,
Your crooked smile,
The scar on your neck,
The insecurities you battle with daily,
All of you.